As I am preparing to run Snowdrop Ultra for the 3rd year, I’m approaching this Snowdrop with a much different perspective. On May 7th this year, our lives changed dramatically, when we took Anne Marie to the ER with
what we thought were gall stones. Within a few hours, we were given a very different
diagnosis of Stage IV cancer, which was later confirmed with a biopsy as an
aggressive form of Squamous Cell Carcinoma. Many tears, much fear, endless
prayers, doctor visits, tests, and two surgeries later, we entered the world of
chemo infusions, which is all-too common for so many.
Chemotherapy is different for everyone, but for Anne Marie,
it is a 3-week cycle. Chemo day is proceeded by labwork and a visit with her Oncologist,
then a 4-hour infusion of two chemicals through a port implant in her chest. Following
chemo, Anne Marie has one good day, followed by a week of pain, fatigue, and weakness.
Then comes 2 weeks of relief as her healthy cells recharge, and she has a
chance to rebuild her strength and mental stamina. We’re fortunate that so far her
cancer is responding to the treatment, and we’re cautiously moving forward one
chemo cycle at a time,
As hard as it is to go through these cycles, Anne Marie and
I are in it together with family and friends. After 33 years of marriage, we face
this latest challenge together headed into our “golden’ years, cherishing each 21-day
cycle and making the most of them, knowing it is a life well lived whether it
is a few more cycles or many years.
As we run Snowdrop, hour after hour, we pass the smiling photos
of all the children who face harder battles than ours, knowing that while many
don’t survive, some continue to fight the battle and move on to live new
adventures. As hard it is working
through our struggle with cancer, we cannot imagine how hard it would be to
face this with a young child.
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