In
October 2013, my high school friend Tabby Vona was diagnosed with stage 4,
triple negative breast cancer. I had
never known anyone my age with cancer before, and to be honest it really scared
me and hit very close to home for several reasons. My Paternal grandmother and Maternal Great
Aunt had lost their battle with breast cancer when I was a teenager, so I have
always supported breast cancer research, but Tabby has a son just a little bit
older than my daughter. She has a husband, sisters, a million friends and
people that love, support, and need her. How could this happen to a 42 year old
woman that I know? This is usually something I see on a morning news show or a
Facebook post. These are literally all things that ran through my mind as I
read the announcement on her Facebook page to all of her friends. I had tears
running down my face as I read it to my husband, and then immediately texted my
friend Kelly, a mutual high school friend of ours. We both began to think about
what we could do to help. I told Kelly about the Me Strong foundation and that
I thought it would be a great idea to start a team for the upcoming 5K that
January. Sort of a cheerleading squad for her, so she would know we were
supporting her, cheering her on, and pushing her to get better. We asked
another high school friend, Jenny to join us. Her father had recently lost his
battle with cancer, so she was more than willing to jump in with both feet and
help cheer Tabby on as she fights the biggest battle of her life!
So,
we started a Team Tabby Facebook page and it took off from there. We encouraged
people to join the Facebook page and then register for the Me Strong race. By
the 2013 race day, we had almost 140 registered participants! Our goal was
originally 50; so to say that we were overwhelmed by the response is an
understatement! Tabby was not able to walk last year, and may not be able to
walk this year, but she is still here, still fighting, and we are currently working
on building Team Tabby even bigger than last year!
In
addition to building the team bigger this year, we will be fundraising for Me
Strong, and Tabby wants the team’s focus to include honoring her friends and
family who have someone fighting or lost their fight to cancer.
“Team
Tabby is more than just about me, we are friends who believe in supporting each
other...” –Tabby Vona